CKnotables

Recently, i was wondering what could make a wife to say to her lovely wedded husband "i want a divorce!" or the husband on other other hand. Well, yeah i know that cheating, misunderstanding and many more could buy to this but they are not enough. Immediately after marriage, or before marriage, you and your spouse 'most' visit a marriage counselor. most difficult part of marriage counseling is getting your partner to agree to it, according to Purdue University’s Couple & Family Therapy Center. Once you get past that initial challenge and your partner has made the decision to join you in counseling, prepare a list of questions you want to ask during your counseling sessions.  This guide will help you consider the things you need to bring up with your significant other. 1. What Are Our Main Issues? The things that matter the most to one spouse often seem insignificant to the other. When you’re in a relationship, couple counseling sessio...

Just recently, I had a friend ask me what I felt about having an affair or a relationship in the office. You see she was attracted to her boss who was equally attracted to her. Oh and by the way, the boss in question is single (are there still single men out there?), very sexy and of course, searching. She did not think there was anything wrong with it and besides, her biological clock is fast ticking away. The sad thing was that there was a strict policy against any sort of romance in the office. Her question got me thinking and I decided to do some research as to why organizations, some not all, have policies against dating. I came up with this. First, we should start by summarizing the reasons why you wouldn’t want to allow dating or romance in the workplace: 1. Potential cases of sexual harassment 2.possible cases of retaliation 3.Impact on co-worker morale 4. Distraction 5. Favoritism 6. Drama resulting from the breakup 7. Rumor mill 8. Decline in ...

A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted…“Dad, look the trees are going behind!”   Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old’s childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed…“Dad, look the clouds are running with us!” The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man…“Why don’t you take your son to a good doctor?”The old man smiled and said…“I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth, he just got his eyes today.   Every single person on the planet has a story. Don’t judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you.

A man was passing a herd elephants and he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not. He saw their trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away.  “Well,” trainer said, “when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.” The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were. Like the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply...

I was watching entertainment news on TV with a couple of friends and it got to a part where Tuface was on stage performing and a girl who probably was as drunk as a skunk, dragged herself on the stage and started hugging him and even took off her shirt . What is actually wrong with Naija babes at concerts? How do you expect your boyfriend to feel watching his girlfriend on national TV jumping around Tuface on stage like a chimpanzee wearing just a bra and with boobs wobbling from side to side? Well, Tu-baba surely didn’t mind. He probably would have grabbed at those bouncy boobs if it wasn’t a concert. Twale Baba!!! Here are some of the annoying things Naija babes do at concerts. 1. Taking pictures the entire show:  I get it. You want to show all your friends on Facebook and Twitter that you were at the concert. Fine. Take a photo. Take five if you want. But please, don’t take 1000! You always manage to hold your camera right in my line of sight. You don’t even look lik...

When love is in the air, it shows. Even though we might try to hide how we are feeling, our body gives clear signals that we are in love.  Here are 10 signs that show you a man is in love. If you can see five of these signs, you’ll know that he has strong feelings for you … but if you see all 10, then you can be sure that he loves you! 1. He’s always playing “Where’s Waldo” Whether you are walking in a sea of people, or you are the only person on the sidewalk, he’s searching for you. You can see his eye scan the crowd of people, or try to see if that really is you walking his way. When you finally make eye contact, his mouth curls into a sweet smile that crinkles his eyes. 2. With you, he’s happily unhappy Even after a tough day where everything seemed to go wrong, seeing you tugs a smile from his tired face. Though having you there doesn’t fix troubles at work, he can’t be as upset with you by his side. He doesn’t put on a false face when he’s upset, but he lets you know...

We’ve all been through that dating experience… you meet the guy, everything is going perfectly and then bam! All of sudden you or he is not interested any more… and you’re not quite sure what went wrong.  It’s great if you are the party that loses interest, but if you’re the party that’s left behind you’re often left struggling to understand what went wrong.  So what happened? When you meet somebody and you feel strong chemistry, what happens is that this person has come into your life to show you a characteristic or belief inside you that is ready to change (be shifted).  The aspect that’s ready to be shifted can be in a number of different areas, from who you are to what you judge and resist, to what you’ve lost and compromised and even your expectations.  In the scenario where your beau suddenly loses interest, what happened is that he has gotten the awareness of the aspect to be shifted and he no longer feels an energetic p...