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[Article] 7 Tips to Help You Choose a Better Life


Many of us live our lives without knowing what we really want. We often do what our parents tell us to do and we often don’t question if those decisions are right for us. That’s why many of us are so miserable and not happy with our lives, especially with our jobs and professions.

Choosing the kind of life you want to live is a difficult task and you can’t do it overnight, but it’s possible, though it may take a lot of time and efforts. Here are a few tips on how to discover what you really want in life


1. Let go of the past

Before you start discovering what you want in life, you should let go of your past and have no regrets. You want to live a happy life, but your past may be holding you back. No matter how hard you try, you can’t change your past mistakes. Focus on the present and a little future, and you will move forward in life.



2. Find out what you really need


Figure out what you need in life in order to be happy. Yes, it’s a hard task that may take you lots of time. Think over what are the most significant things to you: your love, family, or financial state. Once you know the answer to your questions, you’ll know what you should do to live a more fulfilled life.


3. Discover what makes you happy

Do you know what things make you feel genuinely happy? Simply take several moments daily and think of the things you like and that make you feel alive and more energized. When you discover what those things are, you will know what you have to do in life. If you get unhappy or anxious just thinking about job, it’s time to reconsider your career goals.


4. Where will you be in 5 years?

Have you ever imagined where you will be in 5 years? It might be difficult to picture yourself in the future, but it will help you to figure out what you really want in life. Think about what goals you want to reach and what skills you want to develop in 5 years. Once you answer to your questions, make a plan to achieve your goals.



5. Pursue a hobby


Another surefire way to figure out what you want in life is to experiment and pursue various hobbies to know what suits you best and what you like. You might find out quite surprising things about you, which will make you reevaluate your priorities and goals.


6. Find out what you don’t like

Discover what things bother you and you’ll know what you don’t have to do in life. I suggest that you make a list of things you hate and this list will certainly help you find out what you need to do to be happier. Maybe you don’t like your current job, or maybe your best friend is not actually your best friend, whatever, start changing your life for the better today. After all, your life is too short to spend it doing things you hate.



7. Seek for advice

Sometimes it’s okay to ask for advice from your parent, siblings, a friend, or maybe a therapist. Your friend can point out certain things that you might have never noticed before, and can help you to figure out your life goals.



Culled from:  Sugardaily
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